Train Trials

Just when I think I’ve got Indian train travel worked out, I get thrown a curve ball. Like food, for instance. The train I took from Mumbai to Goa had full meal service delivered to your seat. Expecting the same on the Goa to Madurai journey, I brought nothing. And they served nothing. One woman across the aisle took pity and gave me biscuits and fruit, and I was eventually able to grab samosas from a station stall, but otherwise was offered only coffee or chai, both of which are so sweet as to be somewhat sickening.

And then there are the lack of aids- visual or otherwise – to help you figure out where your stop is. There are no announcements, and the staff disappears for long periods of time, so you’re pretty much on your own to decipher the signs as you approach the various stations. If you happen to be disembarking in the middle of the night or early morning when it’s still dark , you’re really up the creek.

And that’s exactly what transpired this morning. First of all, I thought my arrival time in Madurai was 12:30 am. When that came and went, I settled on 5:40 am because everyone in Goa kept telling me it was a full day’s journey. But that went by too and here’s me, still on the train. Madurai was an hour or more behind us when a porter asked where I was going. When I told him, he bundled me off at a place called Kovilpatti and told me to get the next express train in the other direction.

To say I was a novelty on that station platform would be an understatement. I don’t think they see a lot of tourists in Kovilpatti. I found my way to the ticket counter and asked about an AC car but he shook his head and told me it was an unreserved train. I’ve always wondered about unreserved trains when you have to run like crazy and walk over people to secure a seat; this was my chance to experience it!

I aligned myself with a group of women and kids and took my cues from them, including elbowing old men out of the way as we all scrambled to get inside. It wasn’t so rough after that. I found a seat with five women and in addition to a fan, the windows opened. Not bad for 25 rupees (50 cents). And everyone around me made sure I got off at Madurai Junction!

My room feels like heaven. The only thing missing is a mound of food which I will go in search of shortly.

Madurai-bound

Eye update: all is well. I had a follow-up visit on Wednesday. The eye is healing and hemorrhaging has decreased. No sign of a tear, so nothing further required other than – well – keeping an eye on it??? The doctor also gave me the name of a person to see in Madurai just in case.

Been hanging out with my UK friends Ruth and Lucinda this week since they moved to Palolem. Our boat ride to see the dolphins on Tuesday was fab. Saw lots of the critters including a baby swimming along between two adults. We then stopped at Butterfly Beach for a swim and to give Ruth a chance to pick up garbage – two bags full. I don’t think the boatmen were too impressed with having to bring it back but she was determined, and there’s nothing more stubborn than a tree-hugging hippie, which Ruth definitely is!

I met them for breakfast this morning. We were hoping to go out on a river boat ride to see more of the amazing array of birds that make their homes here. Unfortunately, no one around. Tomorrow marks the Holi celebration – the festival of colour – and we suspect that many may have already left to be with their families in their villages.

There are signs of the impending celebration everywhere you look…women stocking up on food and gifts, people in costumes with elaborately painted faces, fireworks at night and roving bands of women and youngsters who want to paint your face pink. I’m kinda happy I’ll be on the train tomorrow on my way to Madurai as pink isn’t my colour. But I will miss the water. It’s been lovely to swim every single day.

Some of the characters around the beach today:

Health Care, Indian Style

Before I go any further, I am fine. My pupils are dilated…huge actually, like back in the day ?…but otherwise I’m as I should be.

It started on Tuesday when I noticed an increase in the amount of floaters in my eyes…little dots that drift back and forth across your field of vision. They are generally harmless, so I didn’t think much of it, other than to wonder about the frequency.

On Wednesday morning, I experienced bright flashes of light at the periphery of my right eye. I got a little nervous about this as I know that both are symptoms of a detached retina, so I found an optical shop down the road and went to see them. Unfortunately, they only perform vision tests for glasses, but the guy gave me the name of an eye doctor in Margao. The flashes eased in the afternoon so I decided I was overreacting.

Thursday…no issues.

Friday, floaters back along with a haze that slid back and forth my right eye like a curtain being drawn. So I called and got an appointment for this (Saturday) morning.

Margao is about 45 minutes away by taxi. (The guy next door gave me the name of a fellow he uses…always appreciated to know your driver isn’t a cowboy).

The waiting room was filled with bare-footed people as you have to take your shoes off to enter. I waited about 40 minutes before seeing the eye doctor and her four assistants (two of whom seemed to be there to hold my head in place). Eye test, drops to dilate, a further examination and a referral to a retinal specialist which she arranged to take place right away so that I wouldn’t have to make another trip. Three hundred rupees…$6.

Across town to the eye hospital where I saw the specialist immediately. It was like no other eye examination I’ve ever had, but he was thorough and reassuring. He suspected a small retinal tear but couldn’t actually see one, only the presence of blood. One thousand rupees ($20) and instructions to come back for follow up in three or four days just to be sure.

Cab ride to and from Margao and 90 minute wait time…$36.

It’s not completely over, but I have a good feeling about the whole thing. Fingers (not eyes) crossed…

Hello from the other side

Another perfect morning.  It’s hot.

The view most days from my perch in front of Tantra Cafe on Patnem Beach. Very few people here.
Impossible not to squint…
I think it was Take Your Daughter to Work day yesterday. She was a pretty decent driver.

Til the cows come home

I’m settling into a comfortable and lazy routine here in South Goa. It is unusually warm for this time of year – high 30s. I say this as a statement of fact and not to elicit sympathy, as I suspect I wouldn’t get much. But it is rather extreme, so I’m moving as little as possible.

Mornings, I sit and read on the tiny balcony at Ruby Residency overlooking a riot of jungle greenery that is my back yard. The birds are usually going nuts, and every once in a while the cacophony includes the crow of a rooster. He is much noisier beginning at about 4 am but that’s a rooster for you. I’ve decided to like his wake up call, even if it’s a tad early for my taste.

The Ruby sits on a small rise overlooking the village of Chaudi, about 2 kms from Patnem Beach. It’s a considerable condo complex consisting of seven separate buildings of five storeys each. Everyone in the area knows it, so no worries about getting lost.

For the first few mornings I walked to the beach, hitting the road before the sun got too high. The path takes me through Chaudi’s Main Street, past the fruit and veg market and out along a flat, scrub area filled with egrets, goats, cows and the odd monkey being chased by a pack of dogs.

Patnem Beach is perfect. Sufficient restaurants and small shops to fulfill basic needs but not overdone. No beach hawkers…not one person yelling, “hey lady!” Sun beds and beach umbrellas – more than enough for everyone – and the Arabian Sea stretched out into forever. The water is warm, with rolling waves near the shoreline that can pound you if you’re not paying attention.

Twice now on the way back home at the end of the day, my Zen has been shattered…

When I was a kid, my Mom had this expression…”til the cows come home”. Used in a sentence, it sounds like this: “You can cry until the cows come home but you’re not getting that toy” or, later in life, “you can threaten to run away til the cows come home but you are not going to Woodstock.” Here, my challenge is to get home before the cows.

On two occasions, the road at the base of the small hill leading to my flat has been blocked by a herd of buffalo. They are massive creatures with long, mean-looking horns, and there are a lot of them – 30 or more. If you know my history with Indian cows, you’ll understand my angst.

Because a picture of the buffalo would be too scary…

Endless Summer

Mumbai was a pleasant surprise. As big as it is – and it is huge – it is somehow welcoming with its tree-lined, traffic-choked arteries, gorgeous architecture and highly-approachable people. The fact that there’s a beach in the middle of it doesn’t hurt either.

I got remarkably lost on my first venture out. On a quest for an ATM and an Airtel shop to get a SIM card, I dutifully asked for and received clear directions from the folks at my hotel. Trouble is, the first Airtel shop couldn’t help me, and they directed me to a second. With the twists and turns involved in finding it, and street names nearly impossible to pronounce let alone remember, I lost the thread of lefts and rights as well as my sense of direction. No worries…a little more wandering than expected and a raft of smiles and helpful natives along the way.

I met up with Ruth and Lucinda on Friday morning. Ruth is a woman I met in Thailand last year; we stayed at the same hotel in Bangkok. She and Lucinda are also on their way to Goa but since we were in Mumbai at the same time, we decided to see some of the sights together.

Gateway of India, Victoria Terminus, Taj Mahal Hotel, the police headquarters so prominently featured in Shantaram, Leopold’s for lunch and a promenade in the hanging gardens, all under a blazing 34-degree sun. After a short break back at the hotel for a shower and rest, we were on the hunt for masala dosas followed by a stroll on Chowpatty Beach. Pure magic in the cool night air with the lights of the city twinkling all around us. I have wonderful beach pictures; they won’t load so this one will have to do.

Lucinda and I in the Hanging Gardens, waiting for our photo op.

I made my way to LTT Saturday morning to get the train for Goa. 650 rupees for the 40-minute trek across Mumbai to catch my 830 rupee, 750 km ride to the beach. That’s known as legalized highway robbery in the taxi industry. It irks me but I can’t complain; I’m getting a huge discount booking train travel online as an Indian senior citizen. The cabbies can see that I’m white, so senior or not, the cost goes up…

Nearing both midnight and Canacona, they happen in quick succession, a series of those Indian moments that never seem to happen anywhere else:

– With the help of all of my seat mates, I get myself to the door of the train ready to depart in lots of time. The train stops at Canacona for 2 minutes, so no room for error.

– The car attendant kindly opens up a type of jump seat for me to sit on until we reach the station. He outfits it with freshly laundered sheets.

– Swaying back and forth in my own world, I notice a handsome, bearded young man gesturing to me. He approaches, and we get into a conversation, the kind that fellow travellers have. He tells me he’s going to a yearly celebration at an ashram called Isha in Kerala and recommends that I check it out as he has found it to be a place with special spiritual energy. He then heads off to his seat and returns with a book for me – Inner Engineering A Yogi’s Guide to Joy by Sadhuguru. He asks that I pass it on when I am done with it. Which I will do.

– Canacona station at midnight and there isn’t a taxi or tuk-tuk in sight. I meet a young man who offers me a ride on his motorcycle to Palolem, but I politely decline. One of the station attendants calls a taxi, gives me tea and we chat while he feeds biscuits to the local stray dogs.

I’m definitely back.

February 13, 2017

My car is counting down the days to my departure for India. It thinks it’s due for an inspection on that day, but I’ve contacted the dealership and someone must have forgotten to reset the timer after the last service appointment. The next one is due in June, so I can sit back and experience this happy oincidence and those delightful butterflies at the thought of my return to Asia without the burden of car maintenance hanging over my head.

I’m flying into Mumbai this time – my first time in the city which I grew to know and love while reading the novel Shantaram. My guest house is in Colaba, the protagonist’s favourite haunt, and I intend to visit Leopold’s where he met and fell in love with Karla. With any luck and some basic common-sense precautions, I should be able to avoid encountering the thugs and war lords who beat him to within an inch of his life on several occasions. Won’t be touring the slum where he lived; the book was sufficiently descriptive so that I feel no need to witness it first hand.

I’ll be doing things a little differently this trip, trying out Air BnB for the first time and also incorporating a small-group tour in the form of a Ganges River cruise. It will be interesting to see if these modes of travel resonate…still can’t imagine they can be better than staying in dirt-cheap guest houses and hanging out with 20 and 30 somethings.

I’ll also be visiting Kolkata. It’s been challenging to shake the visuals I grew up with about that city, yet knowing what I know about India, it’s hard to believe the poverty can be worse. And India has shown me time and time again that squalor and great beauty travel hand-in-hand.

New Friends

Sally and I were invited for tea by Geshe Sherab Puntsag after yesterday’s conversational English class at Tibet World. The literal translation of geisha is spiritual friend. The title is conferred upon those who have completed extensive studies and examinations at monastic universities. It was Geshe Puntsag’s first class (ours too). He is in town for one month before he heads off to teach in Russia.

Geshe Puntsag's is well-connected on social media!
Geshe Puntsag’s is well-connected on social media!

The class was fabulous. We are given a topic, and our students – the majority of them monks – answer a series of questions. Yesterday, the topic was Tibet; it was heartbreaking to hear their hopes and fears about their country. I learned a lot, and I hope they did too. I’m going back on Monday and for the remainder of my time here.

Summarizing our discussion at the end of class.
Summarizing our discussion at the end of class.
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Listening attentively to presentations.

I have a new friend from Kashmir on Temple Road. He says he’ll help me if I can’t get sufficient cash to pay for my guest house. You never know, I may have to call his bluff. The money situation changes daily. The ATMs, if you can get near one, are dispensing 2000 rupees at a time, the equivalent of $40. I’ll need ten days to withdraw the amount I need.

I met German Guy at the Snow Lion at breakfast. I tried to have a conversation with him about the money issue but it was impossible to get a word in edgewise. I also ran into Swiss Guy at the temple. He thinks there’s still time for me to marry…wtf?

Met this woman near the temple for the second day running. We're buddies now!
Met this woman near the temple for the second day running. We’re buddies now!

Going to see Seven Years in Tibet this afternoon. Wonder if there’ll be popcorn…

Tushita

I have no photos from my time at the meditation centre. They confiscated all distractions, cameras included, at the start of the course, and so we were completely isolated from the world outside of the heavy iron gates.

One hundred and four of us, only six over the age of 50. It’s amazing how the energy of youth spreads and revitalizes, even in silence. These young people from all around the world – their caring and compassion and introspection – restored me and continues to rejuvenate as I meet them on the streets of Mcleodganj and they throw their arms around me….kindred spirits.

There’s Sally who is also staying here at Ram Yoga House, from Melbourne, Australia, in India to deepen her yoga practise. Noa and her partner from Israel, gentle souls who wear their hearts on their sleeves as they try to make sense of this world of ours, Carola from Sweden, Angie from Argentina and Ben from California. The two Indian women from Delhi who assured me that despite the money situation, I would be okay because I’m Canadian and people would want to help. And they were right.

Results of yesterday's money-exchange madness.
Results of yesterday’s money-exchange madness.

I kind of miss the silence of Tushita. I miss the peanut butter and Tibetan bread. I miss the monkeys who were fairly well-behaved at the start of the week but who erupted into little hellions toward the end. Nothing was safe from their curiosity, fights breaking out all over, even an invasion of the kitchen. Hilarious for the students but tiring for the staff who had to try to control them…

Our dharma teacher Jimi is a 68-year-old American originally from Seattle who has lived in India since the 70s. He was also a monk for 12 years but left when he fell in love. Jimi has forgotten more than I’ll ever know about Buddhism, and his stories were entertaining and enlightening. He is, however, time-challenged and so we found ourselves in marathon teaching sessions near the end, trying to cram it all in.

We had an impromptu visit from two young lamas who spent their early years in a monastery but who also left to enter “the real world.” Wise far beyond their years. Both had connections to Canada.

I now have two weeks left to revel in the beauty of this mountain town, filled with Tibetans living in exile. Two weeks in the warm mountain sunshine, to eat momos and aloo gobi and parantha and pickle. To meditate, to walk in the forest, to have chai with the Kashmiri shopkeepers, to perhaps take part in conversational English classes for local monks. Content.

Pointsettias in their natural environment.
Pointsettias in their natural environment.
This woman sifts sand all day long just below my room, her children alongside her.
This woman sifts sand all day long just below my room, her children alongside her.

10 Days on a Small Planet

A lot of the Buddhist teachings focus on impermanence, how everything changes, and that much of our suffering stems from thinking otherwise.

I went into the meditation retreat on November 7th. I emerged on Nov. 15th, nine days later. Donald Trump is the next president of the United States. 500 and 1000 rupee notes are no longer legal tender in India, and Leonard Cohen is dead. Lesson learned.

in the Small World Dept, I ran into a woman from my Eastern Passage yoga class in a restaurant two nights ago. Never, ever think you can get away with having an affair on this planet.

The scene in banks across India right now. By the way, I succeeded in getting my money exchanged after four hours in the queue.

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